being nice VS being right

just a quick post, nakaw sa office :-)

Would you rather be nice or will you stick to what is right?

This has been my concern lately. At work, at time or most of the time, I am really prone to arguments for which I hated much. I'm am not really into it more so that I know that I am sticking to the rules. Yes maybe at times, considiration should be extended but when abused (which is actually what is happening) it categorically falls into something I dont want to deal with. TOLERANCE. Tolerance then leads to ignore small things which when accumulated had its "material value".

I hated much, yesterday for again I had an argument with a workmate. I know very much my job discription, its limits and boundaries, and I always put it on my mind the parameters that had been established. Why do some people consider that your action is beyond to what is supposed to be, just when everything is clear that it is a part of your job. Was this because that same thing you imposed and follow is something unbenefecial to them? Selfish!!! kitid ng utak. bat may mga ganung tao sa earth. haysssssss tumbling mode....

Nevertheless, I would still choose and stick to what is right. I know I need to be nice too, but at this point and on this matter, my mind should prevail over my heart. It may not be easy but when you stand and stick to what is right, you will always be on the right side of the fence. Some, may not understand you at the moment but sooner, if they do, that would be the sweetest vindication. trabaho lang, walang personalan...

world peace!!! :-)

Boracay 2011

When we say BORACAY it equates PARADISE. White sand beach, prestine waters, dark blue sky on sunny days, beautiful people, world class establishements like hotels, restaurants and more. Boracay is not all about Beaches, waters, sands and establishements; It has people, beautiful and very hospitable people on this matter and they call us PINOYS. Ikaw pinoy ka ba? At para don sa mga kaibigan kong di pa nakakarating ng Isla ng Boracay, let me share you these photos(pag-tiyagaan nyo nga lang). And for those ho have been here, theres more about Boracay. Next time you step in this Island you will have another bunch of wonderful experience.

Lantern by the Beach

"baruto" local term for boat

"bulaga"

"solo"

"hilera"

"yello+green"

"sabit"



Eksena sa Isla

dahil sa wala ako maipost, eto na lang muna....
paninindigan ko na ang pagiging dakilang palaboy sa isla ng Boracay.. pagpasensyahan nyu na lang dahil di naman talaga ako photographer.

Koreans by the beach!!!

Sunset Skimboard

Groto(as locals call it here)

d' Groto by noon

the coconut nut

Boracay Sunset

Eksena sa Isla

yan na lang muna!!!!

kelan lang blogger had been into what they call maintenance chuchu. I was really not bothered kasi kala ko net connection ko lang ang me problema. Kaya pagdating na pagdating sa work, sinubukan kong  mag log-in sa blogger at ganon pa din. ampowtah my problema nga yata talaga, di pa convince eh :-)

nong ok na sya, ayun naconfirm mula sa mga sikat na blogger na may chuchu nga talagang nangyari, tapos si ako tsek muna ng aking mga entries, yong latest entry wa na comments. leche!!! nag-iisang comment nga lang yon nawala pa, hahahahah.pero salamat pa din kay kuya keatondrunk. 

dahil sa nangyari, binalikan ko ang mga previous post ko, ngunit parang nagsisi na din ako kasi napagtanto kong wala pala talagang wenta ang mga entries ko, ganunpaman natuwa na din ako sa sarili ko

kasi

kasi

kasi

pag di na ako natuwa sa sarili ko sino na lang?

sino? 

sino? 

at sino?

ikaw? .....

cge na nga pede na din ikaw.

Sa mga naging entries ko kahit sabihin ko mang walang kwenta ang mga yon, di ko pa din naman maitatangging may mga entries akong paborito don. Di dahil sa maganda ang pagkakasulat kasi I know I was not given the that gift pero yon yong mga nagpapaalala sa akin regarding what I thought, what I feel and how was me in tht particular moment of my life. ohdiva Ingleser na ako LOLZ. Isa sa mga naging gusto ko ay ang post ay http://denguerousblog.blogspot.com/2011/02/kamusta-ka-ina.html kasi it was written by a son who dearly miss his mother, friend, supporter, fan, critic rolled into one.

ikaw anong post mo ang pinakagusto mo? Pano pag nawala ang blogger?

Yong totoo.

Tanong: Ano o Sino ang importante sayo? Yong totoo!!!

Minsan ba sa buhay mo naitanong mo sa sarili mo ito? Simpleng tanong pero kaakibat nito ay ang maaring maging batayan upang malaman kung anong klaseng tao ka. Maaring sa mga sagot mo ay higit kang makilala ng mga taong nakapaligid sayo, at maari din namang sa hindi mo inaasahan, gaya ng nangyari sa akin ay mas lalong higit mong nakilala ang sarili mo. 

Sa totoo lang, madali lang talagang sagutin, ang mahirap ay kung pano mo bigyan ng sapat at tamang justification kung bakit yon ang mga pinili mong sagot. At sa bawat minutong ikaý nag-iisip kung pano mo gawing kaaya-aya ang ang iyong so called justification, hindi mo namamalayan na mas lalo kang napapalayo sa sarili mo. Lalo mong nilalayo ang sarili mo don sa totoong sarili mo kung bakit yon yong mga napili mo, dahil mas binigyan mo ng oras para ma-impress ang taong nag-tanong sayo.

Subukan mo toh, isipin mong isang kaibigan, katrabaho, kakilala ang nagtanong nito sayo. Isulat sa papel ang mga naging kasagutan mo. Kuntento ka na ba? Subukang itupi at kumuha ng panibagong papel. Sa pagkakataong ito subukan mo namang isipin na ikaw (sarili) mo ang nagtatanong ng katulad na tanong. Subukang ikumpara ang mga sagot mo. May pagkakaiba ba? Kung wala, mapalad ka pagkat naging totoo ka sa sarili mo. Kung meron, subukang balikan ang mga naging kasagutan. Subukang kilalanin ang sarili. sa pagkakataong ito, dito ka na magsisimula upang lalong makilala mo ang sarili mo.

Yong totoo....

Sino at ano ang importante sayo?

Yong totoo....

Kilala mo ba talaga ang sarili mo?

yong totoo......

wapakels

Working in a hotel industry in Boracay as fault finder aka audit churver (so gay LOL) di mo maiiwasan na may mga taong magtatampo at magmamagaling sayo. Some great people at work somehow just wont like to admit and accept the fact that at times their so called A+ IQ plus years of experience ay nagagawa nitong ipagkanulo sila, prompting them to come up with some unwise decision. (read: I dont say its wrong). And for a defense for some bruised ego's, they try to attack someones character, sort of character assassination .  Ending, ang inyong dakilang lingkod ay walang nagawa kundi maglabas ng hinanakit sa site ni Zuckerberg. and below is the text.

"What OTHER people think of you is NONE of your business, its theirs!!!. Just let them waste their time thinkin too much of you, because that equates the time they wasted that they should have spend for themselves..

Wala lang. yun lang ang tanging nagawa ko. Parinig mang maituturing,kaya lang a one  on one talk is not an option, at least for now. who knows in time pwede na...

for anyone out there... let them think whatever they wanna think of you for the sweetest revenge is when they realize by themselves that they are indeed wrong, totally wrong for that matter.

peace anyone. 

Inay Ko Po!!!

As I always believe, the world had been so great because of all mothers in the world. Of what we are today, our mothers had a great influence and had played a very essential part of the real life teleserye of our life called "The Making of Us" 

We constantly be their source of disappointments, had countless misunderstandings with them, but no mother in the world had hated their sons and daughters the way we sometimes feel for them. Yeah, its us that unintentionally hurts them most.

As the world celebrates the HEROS of every child, may every children will find time to thank their mothers. Mothers who had never failed to love their children. Mothers who are ways better than the heros we've known.

I am always vocal about it, I never get "inggit" with those people na mayaman, may magandang mukha, those who may seem have everything in the world. I get envy to those who still have their mothers with them, lucky are they. Mine is already in Heaven. The only consoling thought I have now? I have my best angel in heaven I once called Nanay while she's with us. She will always be my Nanay.

Somehow, and at some point, I had created a world that is mine alone, no colors except for black and white. I dont let anyone invade my self created not so nice environment, but my Nanay had always an access to it. She did not destroyed it nor said bad things about it, instead she just put colors on it. 

Now, of who I am, of what I am, and what I had become and I will become, I owe it to my Nanay. I may sometimes disappoint her and I know I will always be, but I promised that I will be the best person I could ever be, as she wanted me to be. 

To those children who had their mothers with them now, why not give them you're sweetest smile? Why not give them your tightest hug, why not say I love you? Yes, you may be not so expressive as you are but, can we at least make it different now? Indeed children who had their mothers with them now is the luckiest persons in the world. MAKE A DIFFERENCE this mothers day and onwards by showing them how much you love them. Dont wait that you too can experience what I am going through now. Im dying to HUG my mother once more but I cant. Im dying to be with her once more but I cant. Im dying to say I love You millons more but I cant. Yet SHE still console me this moment. Nakukuntento na ako sa mga alaala ng aking Ina pero iba pa din ang nandito sya. Ikaw aantayin mo bang alaala na lang ang lahat kasama ng yong Ina. Oo marahil ang iyong sagot, pero sana'y gawin mong lahat ay magandang alaala kasama sya. Di para sayo, di para sa kanya kundi para sa inyong dalawa. Sige na yakapin mo na sya, pramis di yan magagalit.

Yakapin mo na, ang saya kaya, try moh!!!!

Happy Mothers Day!!!

Last 5 status update in Facebook

Scene I: Nakaupo sa harap ng PC. Nag-iisip kunwari kung ano ang magandang topic para sa entry.Tas biglang may "ting" eto na. diz is it...

Scene II: Ay wala pa pala. joke lang pala yon.Wala pa ding naisip. At isa pang "ting". yes break na hahahah...

o sya eto na. wa pa din kaya eto na lang.

Dahil sa wala talagang pumapasok sa kukute ko kung anong ang pedeng maisulat na mayos ayos naman, naisipan kong ang last 5 updates na lang ng aking account sa FB ang ipopost ko. Naniniwala na tuloy ako sa sinabi ni yumaong ina na mukha o wala akong sinabi kung anong klaseng mukha ako ha, at lalong di ko sinabing saksakan ako ng gwapo, ang mag react tatamaan ng kidlat sa araw ng bday nya hahaha lang meron ako walang utak hahahaha. (syempre gawa gawa ko lang yon, peace inay:-) ) Pasensya na dinamay pa kita. Kyut naman di ba? hihihihi

1. people will always have their ways to displease us, even our closest friends can disappoint us, we should learn to accept that having the oppurtunity to speak doesnt gives us the previledge to be understood. cliche as it is "we cant please everybody" 

posted around 3:52 AM on May 5, 2011. Eto yong realization ko kahapon habang nag-uusap kami ng isa kong katrabaho. We talk about the way we do our jobs, the way we deal and the way it should be deal and I ended up realizing above. Nice noh? hahahah conceited mode. syensya na blog ko to eh. Gawa ka din sayu. Ang mag-reak again tatamaan ng kidlat sa birthday nya. :-)

2. can't send SMS since yesterday afternoon, and I'm so pissed with my mobile network provider, they're not SMART anymore!!!

posted around 3:00 AM on May 5, 2011. Wala lang. Kahapon pa kasi after ko mag lunch with close friends eh di na ako nakapag send ng message. Yon tuloy di ako nakapagpathank you sa mga kasama ko for a great lunch. haysttt.. Idagdag mo pang di na din naiforward ang message for my Churchmates para sa meeting mamayang 7:00 ng gabi. Sana naman makapag send na ako ng message ngayon. Smart isnot so smart na waaahhhh... 

 

3. I hate to entertain the thought (and the fact) that sooner I might be using an eyeglass for my own comfort, contact lens maybe cool but its not an option... at least for now :-(

posted around 4:31 am on May 4, 2011. Medyo nahihilo na kasi si lolo nyo pag medyo matagal tagal ng nakaharap sa pc. Minsan doble na ang nakikita. Di ko alam kung talaga bang nahihilo ako o antok lang o nag-iinarte lang din :-)  

 

4. we can't change the PAST, but certainly we can have a better FUTURE, and TODAY is the only time to make a difference....

posted around 10:59 am on May 3, 2011. May naalala lang. :-(. Yoko ko nang mag elaborate basta the person taught me how to love and teach me the hardest lesson I ever imagined of. No regrets, life is gettin better and the sun keeps on shining. good vives lang... 

  

5. “Thousands of candles can be lit from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared.” -Buddha

Posted around 8:19 on May 14, 2011 Birthday ko to. Para di masyadong halata, nanghiram muna ako kay Buddha. Okey naman sa kanya kasi superclose naman kami hahahah. May gustong magreact? LOL 

 

So ayun may post na din ako sa wakas... till next time..