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May 21, 2011

being nice VS being right

at Saturday, May 21, 2011
just a quick post, nakaw sa office :-)



Would you rather be nice or will you stick to what is right?

This has been my concern lately. At work, at time or most of the time, I am really prone to arguments for which I hated much. I'm am not really into it more so that I know that I am sticking to the rules. Yes maybe at times, considiration should be extended but when abused (which is actually what is happening) it categorically falls into something I dont want to deal with. TOLERANCE. Tolerance then leads to ignore small things which when accumulated had its "material value".

I hated much, yesterday for again I had an argument with a workmate. I know very much my job discription, its limits and boundaries, and I always put it on my mind the parameters that had been established. Why do some people consider that your action is beyond to what is supposed to be, just when everything is clear that it is a part of your job. Was this because that same thing you imposed and follow is something unbenefecial to them? Selfish!!! kitid ng utak. bat may mga ganung tao sa earth. haysssssss tumbling mode....

Nevertheless, I would still choose and stick to what is right. I know I need to be nice too, but at this point and on this matter, my mind should prevail over my heart. It may not be easy but when you stand and stick to what is right, you will always be on the right side of the fence. Some, may not understand you at the moment but sooner, if they do, that would be the sweetest vindication. trabaho lang, walang personalan...

world peace!!! :-)


10 comments:

  1. UnknownMay 21, 2011 at 6:46 PM

    a lot of times na-encounter ko yan, basta nasa tama ako go lang!

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  2. AnonymousMay 21, 2011 at 8:49 PM

    pwede bang, I want to be nice and stick to what is right? hehe pero tama ka, kung ano ang tama dun ka.

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  3. ahwodMay 21, 2011 at 10:31 PM

    @Keatondrunk-sad no. at times di pedeng pagsabayin ang dalawa..

    @mark-dude minsan talaga di pedeng magsabay. sad pero may mga bagay na dapat panindigan...

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  4. BinoMay 22, 2011 at 3:21 PM

    hi! salamat sa pagdalaw sa damuhan. added na kita sa blogroll ko. thanks :)

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  5. ahwodMay 22, 2011 at 4:31 PM

    salamat din po sir :-) lagi po ako dumadalaw sa Damuhan :-)

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  6. emmanuelmateoMay 22, 2011 at 7:04 PM

    pati ako, hanggang nasa tama ako, paninindigan ko talga.

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  7. kenvMay 22, 2011 at 7:39 PM

    Mahirap nga pagsabayin. You can’t be nice while you’re oppressed. You can neither be too nice while you’re defending what’s right. Unless, you gave in of becoming a martyr.

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  8. ahwodMay 23, 2011 at 12:04 AM

    @emmanuelmateo--kelangan talaga manindigan :-)

    @ken-well said :-) hirap minsan no?

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  9. AnonymousMay 23, 2011 at 5:50 AM

    ako naman pag-alam kong tama ako tama ako.. yan yungnasa utak ko...

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  10. AnonymousMay 25, 2011 at 12:09 PM

    pede pagsabayin...mangunguna ang right susunod ang nice, pano? basta pede ok? God bless!

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